Happy New Year guys. In 2016, may all of you have a happy and prosperous year ahead. In this entry I going to share with all of you about making judgement.
Have you ever make a judgement toward person. I bet everyone of you did it before. Well, we often judge a person without realizing it. People usually judge a person by their appearance, behavior action or perhaps body language. Most of the people do not notice their own mistakes, instead they strive to find or point out someone's mistakes. There also some of them enjoys judging other because it help them to boost their self-esteem and feel better about themselves. But actually we do not have the right to judge a person.
Not to lie sometimes I also making judgement toward others. I can still remember when I first met my friend and I thought she was an arrogant person. I felt so scare to talk and make fun with her. But after a few months passed, I found that she is a friendly and kind person. I was ashamed of myself and remorse for my wrongdoing.
Before judging someone, make sure that you know all the facts about this person. Maybe you don´t know the whole story, you don’t know their problems and worries. It is very important to hold off until you know all facts. Instead of judging, try to help them or leave them alone.
It’s crucial to understand that no one is perfect and we all make mistakes every now and then. Before criticizing someone’s actions, make sure those actions are really bad. Maybe they have some reasons to do what they want to do. So from now on stop making judgement towards the others. Be a wise person and learn on how to respect other people. Because if we judge a person and try to make their lives miserable, in the end it will end up ruining our own lives.
Before I end,there is a short story based on making judgement that I would like to share with all of you. Enjoy.
Before I end,there is a short story based on making judgement that I would like to share with all of you. Enjoy.
Martin is an orphan.He lost his mother when he was 13. His mother passed away due to leukemia. Martin currently lives in New York along with his father, Mr Wood.
On a heavy rainy day, Martin involved in a fatal accident. Mr Wood waiting for a doctor to save his son's life. His son was in critical condition and needed an immediate medical care. Soon amidst the crowd he saw a doctor running towards the ICU where his son was lying.
Waiting for the doctor made him so angry and he yelled, “What took you so much time to come and save my son’s life? You are a doctor and you should know that your sole purpose is to save your patient’s life. Don’t you have any sense of responsibility for your profession?”
The doctor calmly replied, I apologize, I was not in the hospital. I came running after receiving the call regarding your son. I request you to calm down so that I can do my work.”
The doctor smiled and replied, “Do your duty, without expecting results”. As a doctor I will try my best to save your son’s life and I would request you to pray.
“Giving advises in in a critical situation like this is very easy”, murmured the Mr Wood.
The surgery took some hours, after which the doctor came out and informed Mr Wood that his son was now out of danger.
Without waiting for the Mr Wood’s reply he carried on his way running. “If you have any questions, please ask the nurse”, said the doctor.
“Why is he so arrogant? He could have waited for some minutes so that I could inquire about my son’s state”, said Mr Wood to the nurse.
With a heavy heart the nurse told him, “His son died last night in a road accident. he was at the burial when he got a call for your son’s surgery. And now, since he saved your son’s life, he went running to finish his dear son’s burial.”
Mr Wood was ashamed for all his harsh words to the doctor and making a wrong judgement without knowing what the doctor was going through. He wished for the doctor’s son’s soul to rest in peace and went to meet his son in the ICU.
